Hello, hello, it's me, Amira! Finally, I have a mood to write something here huhu to be honest, I have a lot of thoughts in my brain and feels like my brain will explode in no time, if I don't take care of it. So here, I just want to share what I'm feeling eventhough I know there might be no one who read it hahaha
All this while I know by facts, our life is soooooo fragile and like anytime, we can feel overwhelm with a lot of things that happened in our life. By then, from what have I observed, there is a few thing that I can detail out here:
(1) Remove entirely victim mentality. Kuatkan hati no matter what. Ingat orang yang tersayang. Kalau tak ada, ingat kucing kesayangan haha
(2) Get emotional support with trusted circles, don't spill the tea everywhere. If you trust no one, make a fake account at medsoc, and spill the tea generally (don't be too specific kang jadi fitnah). Because sometimes, we only want people to listen, not to understand us.
(3) Don't trust anyone easily or else you will let yourself hurt over and over again.
(4) Don't treat someone full of your heart if they didn't value you that much, unless you are okay with it. Ada orang rasa, kau ada ke tak ada ke, tak luak apa-apa pun.
(5) Don't assume all people is same like us eventhough you are close to them. If you are able to communicate well with them, then, maybe you can set up the boundaries, so that no one will hurt much in the relationship. If can't, let it be and move on with it. It hurts a lot, but somehow we need to overcome it.
(6) We are HUMAN, I repeat H.U.M.A.N., we are not perfect. Own your mistakes, feel your emotions, eventhough it's hard and move forward even it's will taking some time. I do a lot of mistakes, A LOT and previously I think too much about it, until I always feel I'm the victim of the world's system. Until I feel why my life is so unfair, but it is actually it is. Life will never be perfect. Hidup ini keras. Things happened, by accident or not.
(7) Trust ALLAH 100%, read up more books that you may find it can help you in a way (for me it helps). Build your trust with Allah slowly. As a human, we are so weak and fragile, but have a little faith. I believe, everything will be okay.
(8) People CHANGE, how good you are, how you are trying to give all the kindness, or whatever it is, people is people. Be grateful if you have someone who stay with you until today, but at the same time, if you broke the relationship along the way, find a new circle. Cuma, jangan berhenti buat kebaikan. Try our best to overcome those unnecessary feelings.
(9) Don't let what people say shape you. You do you, they do they. Filter what they saying, if relevant, apply and improve yourself. If not, put in the box and burn it.
(10) Even we try hard to be independent and stoic, we are human, so don't be less humane. Always find your balance.
Aaaa, here it is!!! LEGANYAAAA!! Rasa macam dah luahkan perasaan haha okay, esok lusa sambung lagi. The above are my perpectives in life, so you all kalau terbaca kena berlapang dada haha
